"What does your Ts say after you told them you cut yourself? Mine doesn't react at all. He says that he can't do anything about it. He also says he can't change my feelings and that I'll get tired of feeling this bad. Is this some sort of strategy to not draw attention to it? He also says that when I cut I do it for myself but I also do it for him. "

SAY WHAT! Hes a therapist hes supposed to help you work through your feelings which will eventually change your feelings and need to cut. If he says you will eventually stop because of your tired of feeling bad I would say CIAO! Thats like saying eating disorders are a phase or OCD you can stop if you put your mind to it...its a load of CRAP. Mental disorders can't be willed away otherwise like a previous post said we wouldn't need meds or therapy. I hope you can find another therapist.