I am diagnosed with both. The book Lost in the Mirror really helped me, it describes the lack of identity, that life is a series of snapshots instead of a continual moving picture,as if you are floating through space with no sense of up or down and no map to show either origin or destination. It is written for the style of the borderline, with descriptive dramatic language..well I have both and I am doing good as of Tuesday I am working full time. It has me a little overwhelmed, yet I am also maintaining a new relationship too. I rely on my faith also. I'm just trying to see me as God sees me, because being borderline means I cannot see myself the way others do.