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Originally Posted by salukigirl
It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He really likes your company but doesn't want to be tied down by a girlfriend. My guess is that he just wants to be single but still wants all the benefits (i.e. sleeping together). Its not fair to you at all. I would cut ties immediately.
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Sleeping together was my idea actually (something the therapist said about men not understanding that love is still there when the passion is lost... so I thought to re-ignite the spark - it wasn't what was wrong... the passion and fire is still there) Mark has since said that it's not a good idea - it was great but emotionally he knows it's sooo wrong for me right now.
We are still chatting (email, txt etc). He seems to want to make sure I'm okay (not going to top myself I guess) possibly from guilt as well as other feelings of friendship - I just don't know.
We are taking a step back for the moment - which means not discussing the break up as much... I'll never have all the answers and I just have to stop looking as it's not healthy for me.
Hopefully the therapist will be able to shed a little light on what the next step for me should be...