Hi timeforsleep...

I really liked what trevozero suggested...If there is a woman(s) in your life that you can tust,,,ask them. Share with them that you are in a bit of a dry spell and lack some confidence,,,they might be able to suggest some good ideas...

But in the end you can't catch fish unless the bait is in the water,,,so get out there and try.

Please make yourself a wonderfull holiday.....

Lenny