I can identify with you Ilzaria. I have numerous unfinished projects around the house. Used to drive my hubby crazy until he learned that we could compromise on it if we talked about it a little.

Listen: I wracked myself with guilt for many, many years for not living up to my intellectual potentional. But then I learned that it is not one's "IQ" that determines one's successs in this world, it is one's "EQ" or "emotional quotient". Those of us who are challenged with emotional disorders who are truly at a disadvantage and are faced with nearly insurmountable obstables at times. So, my T and I decided recently that I needed to forgive myself for accomplishing less than I had hoped in my lifetime.