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Originally Posted by BlueMoon6
I struggle with this, too. Especially exploitation when I was older and should have known better. I blame myself and it is VERY difficult to see the manipulation of a perp.
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I could have written this myself. ((((((((((Blue Moon)))))))))))
Deli -
I'm sorry it was triggering. I can see how pdoc was just trying to help. I spend a lot of time trying to figure out what was in his (
perp) mind. And asking WHY WHY WHY.
Is it a bad thing that pdoc wants you to change your mind about what happened? Do you think you have a clear objective view about it? Personally, I think it would really help me to change my mind about what happened because I blame myself so much. I don't know.
It sounds like your pdoc is trying to help you in and indirect way, maybe to avoid being too pushy. I
Are you going to talk to him about how this triggered you and how you feel about what he did?