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Originally Posted by deliquesce
re: the common experience we have of being taken advantage of over a number of occassions, even by complete strangers. i am not easy with laying all the responsibility on the other person, because even if they are excellent at reading & exploiting my vulnerability, then surely it means that it is something about me that encourages their behaviour.
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In another person you'd see this as blaming the victim. When a person is assaulted, does it mean that something about them encouraged the behavior of the one assaulting them?