I loaned my boyfriend (at the time) $5,000 as he was destitute. Now I find myself very angry and lashing out at him because he is not looking very hard for employment. He got involved in this pyramid-like marketing business and has what I believe is a "pipe dream" in thinking he is going to make money and he hasn't because he is not motivated. I worry that I am not going to see my money and it has caused severe issues in my friendship/relationship with him. I am close to just telling him off but want to keep things cordial because I want my money back. I think I made a big mistake. What do you think?