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Old Nov 27, 2009, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted by BlueMoon6 View Post
I see in how I have been feeling about him in the last week that it is from MY vantage point. That it is frequently my inablility to see the overall picture, maybe its a borderline thing, maybe, I dont know, but each moment seems to be its own reality, if that makes any sense. Today's negative feeling about my H is not connected to yesterday's positive feeling. Its as if there was no yesterday or postive feeling.
And Moon, there is nothing wrong with having high expectations. Learning how not to be so disappointed and being patient with when you will accomplish them is the key though!

About your husband, your vantage point is very important and you will be able to see more of the overall picture as you keep working with T. I think that this is related to that space/trapped issue. When we are not healed we have a small vantage point and it traps us like crazy. As we examine our situation, learn, and understand ourselves and how and where we fit, and how others affect us, we expand our vantage point and we gain so much space. Being trapped becomes a thing from the past.
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Thanks for this!
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