I have been on an online dating site for a year and have met some wonderful people. I believe that you get, perhaps what you pay for. A free site may attract a lot of people that might not be employed. You definitely want someone who is employed and can add their 50% to the family. You will undoubtedly find someone sooner or later. Try to be patient. i would recommend match.com or e.harmony. good luck!!!!! Remember, it is pretty superficial.