Writing, oh boy. Do I ever understand this! Yeppers :-( My angry alter 15yr old Mick tried to do to the same thing with T or ANYONE who came close to us at all. She was looking for a reason to keep up the internal walls. Something small just to hold it in my face and say "I told you so!"

My advice is to be totally honest with your T about what is going on. Don't let the alter hide away and smirk it over. You have to fight for your healing. That involves "outing" those parts of us who are abusing us. And trying to sabatoge our relationship with T is abuse - big time.

All the personal records that are public can be found by anyone. T's know that they are exposed in some ways. It would be a boundry issue if T did that to you. But you are the one healing up. So the only break of T confidence should be if you are not 100% honest about the situation.

Safe hugs!!