I'm glad to know you garden. I have the same issues with humanity at large; seems they only want to 'change' me, tell what I think and feel is wrong..(I think and feel quite differently than most..) ( which is not a crime...)

It is a constant fight; re-iterating no thank you; I will continue being 'me..'

Sad, although I have handful of true friends, do not see them too often; but when I do I feel totally completely understood..

PC is a GREAT place for you to be; full of the deeper kinds of folk...PM me if you wish..