hi i got a weird problem and i was hoping maybe someone can give me some advice cause there's really nobody i can talk to about it. im bi and i think i'm starting to get feelings for my best friend. i'm marryed and my wife knows i'm bi. she's ok with me looking at stuff online but not doing stuff with anybody for real and i dont want to cheat on her anyway. its always just been sexual like i dont think i could fall in love with another man like how i love my wife but this is different with my friend. he's been my best friend for about five years and i never thought of him as any different then that but i seen him on thanksgiving and can't stop thinking about him that way since. i can't tell my wife cause she'll freak out and i can't tell him. i'm afraid to tell my therapist cause my wife comes to therapy with me once a month and i got a feeling she'd want me to talk about it with my wife anyway. i really hope it just goes away but i don't know if this stuff does. i don't know what to do