Hi, Redredblueblue22!

"my mom is blaming me for everything" - I've read your short biography in your profile. I know you're not to blame for everything. In fact, I'm surprised you're doing as well as you are.

"i just wanna knock her in the head and tell her to here hersel shes blaming things on me thats not my problem." - My guess is that your mom is too close and too involved in everything; she's not going to be able to see things objectively. Knocking her in the head or telling her anything other than what she already believes won't help. I think you're right; I suspect you really can't talk to your mom about the things troubling you. (I could be wrong; I only have the little information you've revealed to go on, and I suspect there's a lot more you could tell us.)

Redredblueblue22, I hope you can find folks to talk to, people you can tell your whole story to without blaming you for anything. You deserve that.