Red what you say is how it was for us growing up
and then unfortunatly this is how it is between my daughter
and I and to some degree I know I have to take my share of the blame
now I am not saying you are to blame but if you could maybe try to
see it from a mothers point for just a sec see I am wondering
if she is having some issue with anxiety and that perhaps that
anxiety is based around the fact that as a mother she feels inadiqute
(excuse spelling) because she wants to help but she does not know
where to even begin.Its just a thought something you can think about
I told my daughter recently after yet another disagreement I said to her
"Sometimes Loves Just Not Enough"
Do you have somewhere lse you can go to if things get worse or you?.
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--Lynda Barry
"Years Teach Us More Then Books"
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