I dont know what it is about that movie, but I have gone over it so many times in my head what the possible outcomes could have been had they not missed each other, or each not been so stubborn. There is a lot in that movie that reminds me of my life. And my relationships, especially with my husband.

I dont know if its appropriate to post here, but I had a couple of miscarriages (not so recently), one I had to bury, and like Scarlett and Rhett, we had different reactions to the loss. It would have been a good idea to have been in couples therapy at that time. I think it was just his way to process silently, while all I did was cry. Maybe the key here to our relationship, and I guess with any, is understanding and acceptance, not necessarily that one person should act like or do as the other person would.