I am bi too and it is natural to be attracted to people. But choosing to act on those feelings is up to you. If you want to stay happily married to your wife you know you cannot have an intimate relationship with anybody else, male or female.
It is okay though to have fantasies. I think sometimes the fantasies are better than the real sex anyways.
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