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Old Nov 28, 2009, 07:45 PM
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Maybe there is "something" about you that attracts these perps. It DOESN'T mean it's your fault they target you! IDK think of the small skinny kid in elementary school. He could be the most articulate, outgoing, kind, emotionally grounded kid in the world. He could be very careful not to show off his money, careful not to brag about what he might have, he avoids going to to places alone and being vulnerable, he might even try things to make his body grow faster. Yet he still is targeted and preyed on by bullies. WHY? For no other reason than the bullies see that they have a physical advantage over him. Would you tell this boy it is his fault they prey on him? Would you tell him HE is defective and deserves to have his lunch money taken? NO! there is nothing wrong with him, his body, his actions, his inherent worth.

There is nothing wrong with you.
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