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Old Nov 28, 2009, 11:02 PM
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Originally Posted by bloom3 View Post
sweet deli, you seem to be very invested in seeing your abuser as good while you see yourself as bad. have you thought about what you gain by seeing things this way?
this sticks out to me too, deli. you are so protective of your abusers...yet THEY are the ones who hurt you. there is NO good excuse for that. there may be reasons why they do the things they do, but it is not on you to "make" it all better.