Hang in there, dear. If it feels like the anger is taking over, get out and take a walk or hang out at the corner store or anything before it gets out of hand and things get dais and done that shouldn't be, or in the wrong way. Just tell her "I'm gona blow, I have to go and clear my mind. Please don't talk to me about this before tomorrow,OK?" and just go. A friend of mine gave me this advice once and it was some of the best I have ever gotten. I'm so sorry that you and your mom are having troouble. sometimes it's simply that you are two people whose needs and wants don't mesh. Huggs, I know how that can be. Both Billie J and Starrina have good things to think about. I hope you can hammer this out between you!