Not a multiple myself, but I did lots of "research" about my T. And probably found out things that I shouldn't have. However, she wasn't mad. She just said that it would be easier on me if we talked about it. Eventually I felt bad about knowing things about her that she didn't know I knew, so I gave her a folder with printouts of all the things that I had found. She wasn't angry though. She said I could ask her anything I wanted, although she wouldn't promise to answer.

-Far