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Originally Posted by Timgt5
I agree with Tishie, open relationships only work when both people involved really want to live that way. You are walking a tight rope, but your desire for the other girl sooner or later is going to invade your relationship, even if you never act on it. The best thing that you can do is make a decision of whether you truly what to pursue a relationship with the one you have, which in this case means sacrifice on your part or if you seek something else. As painful as it is you must be honest with both yourself and the girl you are dating.
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I completely agree. When I think of an "open relationship", I imagine it hurting one of the parties involved eventually. Someones feelings will get stronger which would lead to nothing going right. I would say you have to chose one girl or the other as well. For you it might 'just be sex' and nothing more, but I'm sure that your girlfriend would feel different. On another note--the volleyball girl sounds a bit trashy if she doesn't care you have a girlfriend and blantly admitted to just wanting sex. Although--All this is just my opinion..