daughter is 16 now she was not even born when you were taken ill, they took you to oxford for surgery, the surgery was successful, but not long after complications set in and you passed away, joining mum and dad where they are, never got to watch your daughter grow, never had chance to know you might suffer with same as mum did, but by the time they did know it was just too late, and you left us all behind, I never knew your ex so I didn’t get to see your daughter grow, I only met her by chance recently, but I do know you are a granddad now with a lovely little grandson, sometimes I wish that things were different and our family was closer but circumstances never allowed us to have a normal life, dad did his best after mother passed away, struggled to bring the three of us up, only help from relations and holding down a full-time job and more often and not several part-time jobs as well and he helped out where he could, you are well remembered still were we grew up ppl often say to me your mergy's baby sister mergy being the nickname they had for you,