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Old Nov 29, 2009, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted by missing mark View Post
I think that is going to be the hardest part (for both of us). For the time being we are going to stick to just 'general' conversations i think. As much as I think I'd like (but hate) knowing that it was easy/hard for him to replace me right now I know that neither of us is activly looking for someone to have a realtionship with - not fair to the other person that we would get involved with I think.
I know it will happen... probably him first as he's had two months to relaise it's over, where as it's still a little fresh for me i think. Not even sure where to start when it comes to meeting new people etc. Figure if it's meant to be it will happen

Can't say that I'm not hoping that he will have fling and realise that he does still love me but needed space after 5 years of really only spending time with each other. If he's in my future then that's great but for the time being am going to concentrate on ME

Everyone is so wonderful here - good advice, support and it help me get through the day!
I was kind of wondering the same thing. He could potentially do that, which might help cause he'd realize that you are all he wants. Yet--It's bad for you in a way because it seems like an unfaithful thing to do. But either way, That's good that you are going to focus on yourself. Here's a good quote for thought, "Don't let someone become your everything while you are their nothing". (Or something very close to that).
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