I feel the same way. I don't cut deep and it just looks like scratches. I have never understood why I feel like it's not enough to make others worry, because in my mind I can't necessarily say it's good but I don't see it as bad. I would rather have helping resources be used on those that need it more than I do. Perhaps that's why I get many of my friends that know about it angry, because I just can't see what I'm doing as dangerous or any big deal. I know it CAN be dangerous and it CAN get out of hand, but it just seems like a fact and nothing more. I'm not trying to promote cutting, but it just seems to me like something that I do on a regular basis and it's nothing to worry over. :/ This is making it hard for me to stick to recovery and is ruining my relationships with those that know.