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Originally Posted by missing mark
New bump in the road!
He rang me, just to say 'hi'. We ended up talking for about 20 minutes I guess. It ended with him wanting to catch up tomorrow night..... How am I meant to ease back on the contact when this happens?? I do want to be his friend (and more which is impossible right now). I feel if I don't aswer his calls and see him then everything will just dissolve into nothing.
Any advice on how to act/be when I see him tomorrow night... it's only been a week since I last saw him, yes I'm in a better frame of mind and all that, suprisingly calm right now (he has the effect on me)...
What's the best way to keep his slight interest in me aswell as just staying friends?
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Hmm...I don't want to give any wrong advice. But I would act like your okay with being friends and nothing more. Try not to be too flirty with him. It might be hard not to, but its worth a shot. If you 'act' like your content being friends, he might change his mind and come back to you, thinking that you might actually want to move on with your life without him. (Again, just my opinion)
Also, You mention you aren't sure about taking his calls, fearful if you don't there won't be anything left. What you can do is answer and ask if you can call him back in a couple minutes. That could perk his curiousity as to what you are doing. (Sorry if any of this sounds confusing in any way)
But on the other hand, that is good that you are calm right now and in a better state of mind. Keep us posted on how things go tonight.
