I empathize with you Jill...Ive learned sometimes Im better off keeping my opinions to myself....Ive watched your struggle with this one...felt your inner confusion,frustration,turmoil and grief. I empathize greatly and admire the courage you have had to speak your feelings even if it went against what others felt. I will still keep my comments to myslef about this situation...but I knwo how youre feeling Girl....((((Peanut))) I think you have a beautiful heart and soul, my friend,...truly beautiful