I think Seeker has really hit the nail on the head. It doesn't make sense to waste so much effort into thinking about someone who you know doesn't want you. Your happiness needs to be with those things that are real in your life....not what you wish was.

If you put it into perspective.....how unhappy would you be if you were with someone that doesn't want you & how unhappy would they make you being around someone they didn't want to be around???? You can't MAKE a person care for you in that way....it has to come from inside. You can only wish they felt the same way as you & that just doesn't make it happen.

I hope you will soon find other things in your life to focus on & take your mind off this person that just won't happen. You will then be able to become a happier person & much more satisfied with your life. It's not easy to put someone you have been thinking about out of your mind but there is no reason to hang on to something that just isn't there.

Think happy thoughts,
Debbie