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I was one of the posters who found your choice of words offensive. I know some men and women can separate the physical act of sex from the emotional connection --this would be 'just sex'. This category of sex would be for people who are uncommitted or polyamorous relationships.
I realize you speak this way because you're young and probably grew up with access to porn etc. I also didn't like the term 'chick' and when used with 'bone that chick', it just sounded so objectifying and disrespectful. There are many different ways of expressing the sexual act and the words you used are completely different than if someone were to say "I want to make love to that girl'. I sometimes wonder if the young men of today's generation even know what it's like to experience, that kind of intense beautiful love making.
When you think of it, what this girl was doing was so insulting and mean to your girlfriend. We're all human and find the opposite sex attractive even if we're committed - but if we have morals and respect for our partner, we never let it go beyond a fleeting thought. How would you feel if your GF had these intense feelngs for some guy - would that be okay for you and would it be 'JUST SEX'.
I really think you need to examine the commitment you have for your GF. If you were intensely in love with her - you wouldn't be dying to have sex with another girl. There's nothing wrong with just having sex with women - IF you're single(not committed). Maybe you need to sow your oats first before you get involved seriously. BTW a person can talk about wanting to have sex, but in a respectful way, especially since this is a public forum with mostly women
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