Actually, I can tell you are excited. But this seems very bittersweet to you..

1. Try to keep everything as sweet&simple as possible without the $.
2. I'm very sorry about this...but on an optimistic note, you'll have everyone beaming at you when you walk down the aisle.
3. At least you will save money on this!
4. For the dresses, I think you should find a nice and affordable dress that you can all agree on.
5. THIS IS YOUR DAY! Please Chipmunk, I hope you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world on your wedding day. This is your special day& please don't forget this! Weddings are beautiful and the bride is always more beautiful!

Keep talking to your fiance, he cares about you, he's there for you!!

Stay well& good luck