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Originally Posted by BeautifullyMistaken
Hmm...I don't want to give any wrong advice. But I would act like your okay with being friends and nothing more. Try not to be too flirty with him. It might be hard not to, but its worth a shot. If you 'act' like your content being friends, he might change his mind and come back to you, thinking that you might actually want to move on with your life without him. (Again, just my opinion)
Also, You mention you aren't sure about taking his calls, fearful if you don't there won't be anything left. What you can do is answer and ask if you can call him back in a couple minutes. That could perk his curiousity as to what you are doing. (Sorry if any of this sounds confusing in any way)
But on the other hand, that is good that you are calm right now and in a better state of mind. Keep us posted on how things go tonight.  |
Hi,
Thank you for posting. I'm still not %100 sure that I'll go tonight. I do have the option to back out and just tell him that I need a 'raincheck'.
At the moment I'm sort of excited to see him - not the emotions that I want to convey to him. I know he's just holding out the hand of friendship. I wasn't intending to see him until there was a REAL reason, such as signing the house paperwork etc.
It's a hard choice to make, keep the distance and hope that he starts to miss me or continue to try and be friends and see what develops..
I love your opinions btw - it's all what is going through my head and make perfect sense to me...it's nice to hear it from a person that is unbiased and looking at it from the outside.
Thanks BeautifullyMistaken
