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Originally Posted by Fool Zero
I'll most likely wait to "vent" until I've had time to make a halfway decent story out of it. If I do complain to someone in that situation, I'd rather they "just get it" than cheerlead me to get over it or make the best of it -- which, after all, I'm already doing as far as I'm willing.
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I can be this way, too. If I have done the best I could with a situation, I dont want solutions. The other day a friend wanted me to do some driving (with a bunch of kids) that I couldnt do. If I had not made plans to do this or that, I could have done the driving. Her plans included some kids being driven over to her house, hopefully by me. When I told her I had my day planned tightly, she went into how I could change this or that in my day in order to do the driving. I told her I just could not, but was not happy with her looking for solutions to a problem that didnt exist for me! I couldnt do the driving
