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Originally Posted by Yoda
Wow. If that is infatuation he has it badly and not in a good way.
I met my last BF on a blind date. Two days later I saw he had called me twelve times on my caller ID while I was at work. We chatted and he invited me to dinner the next week. He brought me a single rose and cooked dinner for me and I spent the night. Things went well and we moved in together after three months. I think that was probably kind of fast but it worked out well for us.
But knowing somebody two weeks and wanting to move in??? If that happened to me I would run screaming in the other direction!!!!
This wouldn't perhaps be somebody from another country here on a visa, would it? I had offers for marriage from international folk when I was in college because if they marry a citizen they become a citizen. (At least that was the law thirty years ago).
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Yeps!
Laws haven't changed since.
Who in their right mind would accept this behavior as rational?
Get as much as you can on this person. Have your friend question this person regarding family, friends, relationships, work history, areas & durations of residencies, etc, and so on. Meanwhile, most definitely do a background check on this character of her own...lotsa options for that online..hehe, (and she should get results through those online companies. If nothing comes up...Hmmm....."suspicious").
And tell her to refrain from ANY travels anywhere with him until she knows what he REALLY is about. NEVER surrender her security by placing herself in a possible victim situation...OMG..
Good luck. Keep us informed. You have my curiosity stirred now....Just who IS this guy, anyway?....Hmmmm.
Much care to your friend, (and she's very lucky to have such a good one in you, Phoenix)...
Shangrala
