Does your current T hold you like that?
No, T doesn't hold me like that - we've only hugged while standing. And this image popped into my head only 2 months into therapy, long before we even discussed hugging.
It is awesome that your T can be that honest with you on how she feels in the moment.
I am lucky, T is very honest in sharing how she feels.

I think that dream represents a part in therapy with him where he was totally sweet with me.

Then the other dream can be summed up by the tension, the tension you see in movies with 2 people who are fighting or arguing who really are attracted to one another and than bam, that tension turns to something really powerful and erotic when they come together.
I think those two dreams sum up your total therapy experience well, from what you've described.

I am not sure I am ready to forget my anger and hurt about him, and when I don't see him, it is no problems, but as soon as I see him smile at me, the anger melts away. (kinda pisses me off in a way that he can do this) This kind of tension can feel sexual, so I think that was what the dream was about.