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Dec 01, 2009, 04:08 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Crystal....T does care!! It's called tough love sweety!! 
A person and their T have a very special relationship. It is one of the most in-depth relationships a person can have and it is based on trust.
Basically what you told T by leaving how you did was that you were not available to work on your issues any more and that she could not trust you to do the appropriate thing, which would be to communicate with her and allow her to be the best T she could be.
T's don't have time to go chasing after their clients. They expect their clients to commit to hard work, and if they can't then they can't, but it's to difficult on them career wise and emotionally to run after someone who is content on running away.
Nobody likes to be abandoned. T's either. Why should she go chasing after you if you are demonstrating that you aren't ready to do the work.
Can you honestly blame her?
If you want to know how much T cares, put on your big girl panties and make an appointment with her and get back on the wagon. Otherwise....I doubt T will chase you. She doesn't have the time and won't use her energy that she needs for herself and her other clients who do want to do the work.
This is a bit harsh, I know, but I am truly sending you this message with a caring intent. 
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