Ok latest update.... Went up to the house at around 7pm, I'd gven myself an hour max to see him (just giving myself some boundaries). It was 'nice', general chatter and I picked up some clothes that I needed for the weekend (my 30th!!).
To say that it was wierd is putting it mildly.. can't really explain it. I didn't expect fireworks but it was simply blah I guess.
I asked why he asked me to come up and he said he just wanted to see me. He's hard to read right now plus he was tired and stressed about work.
We are going to catch up again - I suggested dinner or coffee - anything not to be just in the familiar setting where if feels like I should be still with him.
Am not unhappy with tonight, it's a stepping stone to something - friendship for sure, there was just no love in the air.
Need to fnd the spark again, it may happen it may not. All in the hands of fate now. I'm doing my bit to put it into motion and he is too.
Really it's probably too soon for all of this, e hasn't really had a chance to miss me really, just miss my company a little I think.

Any idle thoughts out there? Give me an opinion.