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Simcha · Dec 01, 2009, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Babysteps

I think I may be addicted to beautiful women. I mean I can't seem to help myself . It's not like I'm addicted to sex or thinking perverted thoughts. But I find myself searching the net for beautiful actresses , beautiful models , beautiful anime women , beautiful fantasy women , I can't seem to stop it . Is this normal behavior ?
Maybe that's why I'm still single. All the women I ever had relationships with were pretty and had nice butts. I also love looking at women's butts , not so much their boobs but I always loved butts.
Can someone not put importance on how someone looks if they seem to be only attracted to beautful women or is that just born into you ?
I was on a dating site for a while and I was getting asked out on dates but these women were not very attractive to me and were possibly some of the nicest women out there . I mean I'm not attractive myself , so why should I expect to only date beautiful women.
I find beautiful women very intimidating to me . I know this is probably normal for most men but should I talk to my Psych about it.
How much is too much . I think I'll go look up some Kate Beckinsale pictures.

Here's a link I found about a 94 year old man addicted to beauty.
http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2...ent_591472.htm

Do I need help?

We ALL need a little help--

Hey Babysteps-- I think it is possible you have some sort of fixation on ladies' butts if you think about them all the time, minus the other aspects of a relationship. I think they'd call this a fettish, but I'm not sure how far your's really goes.

Are you trying for real relationships at all, or solely focused on women who exist only in your mind? Perhaps the anime thing is related to low self esteem that needs to be worked on? Just wondering. Either way, anything that gets in the way of real relationships I'd say is something to bring up with your therapist and/or Pdoc.
-sam