I'd say she is being plenty blunt. I don't know if it matters too much if you meet the criteria so much as that you can have a starting place to work from. Now you can use some of the PTSD tools to help. I really wish that you could have a T who could be there with you in person. It makes a big difference. Me, I like closets, hiding in closets is my thing. Whatever works for you right? Be well.