Well....Wahhhh! (lmao).....

I find this amusing, (why, I don't know), how....this OP started out with seeking q's to some issues bothering her regarding her personal troubles, (specifically directed for men to answer, which they have done wonderfully), into responses on what classifies beauty. Not that I think it shouldn't....All's good. Whichever way this thread goes, no matter to me.
It just blows me away how some take what other's say so personal, when it isn't directed at any ONE particular person.

There are comments on here regarding preferences of the physical which vary...okaaaaay? So, why the replies of offense? I don't get it....lol.

I'm underweight by 25 pounds. Can't help it...just the way I AM. LOL.
My collarbones show, and hip bones, ribcage..You name it, can't help it. And so be IT.
Imma rail. (lol). Older than most here, no doubt, and holding my own quite well, if you ask me.
I'm not offended by those who express their preferences. And can only hope that other's aren't offended by what I have to express, as well. IF there are those who are offended...keep in mind that what I say isn't with YOU in mind.. therefore, there shouldn't BE anything taken offensively?

But, I'm certain that BY expressing how no offense should be taken by anyone in particular WILL be, somehow, taken offensively in it's own right.
Just my 'sense' worth....

(And what makes this all even more amusing, (again, why, I still don't know), is how this reply of mine has derailed this thread even further from the OP's direction....Sorry, Michele. Not my intentions. But you know that already, right?).

Shangrala