Hello Patricia...no we stopped having sex last may about 5 months before he met her ...I believe he met someone briefly in between us ending our physical contact and her that didn't last more than a month or two (she was smart didn't want to be with someone who was still married)he said he couldn't divorce me and leave me without insurance for someone he didn't even know and would stick by our agreement that we would remain married until either os us found someone we wanted to marry ...So I am just guessing he must not be sure still with this one even after a little over a year and he just renewed with his company for the upcoming year all of our insurance.

I do as time goes on have to feel sorry for her in a way she would be nothing more but sounds terrible but a paid housekeeper,cook,"companion"(sex) she gets to give everything to him without a comittment or total one anyway except a roof over her head in exchange ....which he could at any moment tell her he doesn't want her anymore and tell her to leave ...doesn't have to go through any costly divorce or splitting assets etc..as I said I wouldn't want to ever be in her place ...and even though I am still legally married and it seems contradicting if I can move on I would never date a seperated/married man ...my hope would be to find an available one to fall in love with tell him my situation and if he accepted the fact I would get a divorce if he were to marry me GREAT..

Patricia I am sorry to hear how your life has played out so far ...I too was thrown out at 16 and told by my mother to never call her mom again but by her first name ,then a year later she lapsed into a coma and I never resolved things with her she stayed in that state 6 and a half years before dying ,and during that time my dad got lung cancer and died before her when I was 20 so at 20 I had my first son and my 16 year old sister to raise,a house to pay for ...grew up fast.....and no relatives or friends ...no one to help.....then 20 years later my son got cancer thank god hes didn't die but that devastated me more than anything ...again i had no one since my husband left me then too ...

Hang in there Patricia hows your prognosises I pray there is hope for you ...

Kay