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Originally Posted by AAAAA
You can put it in a box and wrap it with a pretty bow, but what it sound like to me is he wants the benefits of your relationship without the drawbacks. He's free to dabble with you then do whatever else he wants... which would be fine if you were both in a place to handle that type of relationship. It doesn't sound like you are.
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I think he does trully care about me... just isn't in love with me. I am trying so hard to be strong but it's all just a mess. I do question his motives of being my friend... And I question my own.
The main problem I have right now is that he's still living in the house (I'm not) so I don't want it to turn horrible.
I am going to set him free - if he comes back then that's wonderful. I just don't think I can continue like this. How can he want to 'help' me through it when he's the cause of it... Yes guilt - I questioned him on that and he said the main factor was that he cares, secondary to that was the guilt he feels for doing this to me...
I just don't understand love just stopping.... and I don't think I ever will..