I am so very, very sorry about the loss of your sister.

I am confused about FACE. Is that one of your alters or somebody else? I read lots of your posts but can't recall. I'm having trouble remembering if you have alters.

It is very wrong to give an eleven year old alcohol for sure but I think a lot depends on whether you have the genetics for alcoholism. Not an expert or even close about alcoholism. I was a binge drinker after I was introduced to alcohol by some State Troopers when I was a waitress at a party they had for a guy who was being transferred. Neither my mother's or father's side were big drinkers and I don't think I have the genetics for it so when I decided to stop drinking fifteen years ago I did.

I think we need a lot more research and education about alcoholism.

I don't know. You probably are numb after losing your sister. I didn't mean anything bad or hurtful. I am trying to help but don't know if I said that right.

I am sorry she died.