I don't think anything bad about you. I do think that men who do this are going behind their wife's back, and probably cheating on them. Imo I think that you should leave them alone. Sooner or later the wife's will find out. When they do, there is going to be hell with the guy and whoever he is cheating with. If you was to get involved with him, he would do to you, what he is doing to his wife. If you ask me he's a cheater, and a lier. I would never trust him.