((((((((A_Long_Ways)))))))))
Finding a therapist you feel comfortable with may take a few tries, but once you find the right one it'll be SO worth it.
I know how hard it is to hear people telling you to "get over it" or "try harder". I also know how devastating the end of a relationship can be, and I'm sorry you had to go through that pain. Feel free to vent here, this is a safe space.