I agree with Debbie, this is one of those defining moments in your life sweetie where you can rise above that petty, mean spirited attitude....to go and yank your son out of scouting would be harmful to him, he needs to socialize and learn...you don't want to become like them either, do you? Those people could have misery and stresses you just have no idea of, that make it just easier for them to mock and deride others, so they don't have to look at the mess their life is in.

Stay strong, stay true to yourself. BE BETTER than they are, do not sink to their level...hold youre head high, always be pleasant, never show they are getting to you...only makes them more vicious and more inclined to keep hurting you. They get sick perverse thrills out of causing others misery..... just don't become one of them.

I know being a mom is a full time job, and you might work besides, but maybe there is someplace close by where you can volunteer and meet nicer souls. So often any place needing volunteers is a ripe juicy place where other really nice people who like to be helpful show up and make a new circle of friends there.... see if there is a mother's support group or any kind of support group for any of the issues you are dealing with. You will meet people more inclined to understand the situation you are in. Don't give up and don't stoop to their level....be a lady, you will be glad in the future that you never let them defeat you.