I have parts. my child parts come out in therapy and I cant seem to soothe them. My t says that i can do it, and has seen me with my kids, but I feel that is totally different from soothing a part. I cant rescue them either. I feel that and desire a hug at that time, but am to scared to ask my t for one. My child parts dont want me to soothe them, not trusting of me i think. only want to be soothed by her.I get the feeling that she is not the hugging touching type. just wanted to say i feel the same way.