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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I agree theres no reason to judge you - it's not like you're actively seeking out married or attached men. I think if a married man is corresponding regularly with a woman then he borders on the line of emotional cheating.
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I suppose so . But if the man is married but not legally separated but separated I guess its another matter .
I have only corresponded with two men . both I thought were single . another Im not sure but I just emailed a couple of times .
I do not have a horde of people I comminucate with .
i dont have the time and I give my entire focus to a select few. thats just me .
I do like to keep things on a board . its safer .
in fact Im down to zero except for a couple of woman with cancer. .and maybe thats good.
looks like if a man contacts me and we are going to talk more I should ask out right what thier status is .
Rather than assume because they contact me they must be single .
I 'm sure many open minded individuals think this arrangement is okay and thier wives may say its okay ,
I just wasn't careful enough and a bit too naieve .
I tend to be drawn to those who are verbally colorful amoung other things and thats okay just not when it develops into more .and its not right .
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I think people need to be very careful who they're talking to. A dishonest person can portray any false image on line.
I remember when I first learned how to use a computer I saw an on line safety message - it was a picture of this old scruffy naked dude typing at his computer - the message said "do you know who you're talking to". Although I consider myself to be a very honest person I know not everyone is honest about themselves.
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LOL! yes a person can post a differnt photo.
I was mislead by the age . and it wasn't even needed . guess they were going for younger women. I still did not want to belive it . I tend to ingnore the truth .
and make a person be better than they are . My down fall . I should not trust theses people but wanted to . Im fairly forgivig but maybe too much.
I think that was a nice and appropriate gesture of you to ask the wife.
Patricia