I have a brother that I am very close to. He would usually spend 2 to 3 time a week with my husband an me. When he was first dating his new wife, we would get together go to dinner or for drinks. ( Did I forget to mention that she comes from a well to do family?) After he asked her to be his wife everything changed, we no longer saw them, only on those few social event that included our mutual friends. This was breaking my heart. Since iI was well aware that they were getting together with friends of our. I could not figure out what was wrong, did I say something, was she allergic to my cat, was my house not good enough, did we not make enough money? I was devestated for the last time that we had gotten together was over a year ago. In my heart I knew and felt there was something wrong. Comments like "lets ger pregnant together" knowing full well that I can not have children and have had 3 miscarriages. The cheap brithday and christmas gifts. She would come to a social event and really hug my friends hello and just tap me. Well the fan really blew on Mother's Day. When they came to a party hosted by one of my friends. She did the usual hug, and for an hour she spoke to everyone else but me. I was standing at the table when she finally asked me how my mother was. With this I turned on my heels and walked away, so upset. (Before coming to the party I had left my mother, who was almost in tears for my brother had not come over or called.) I walked away to save myself, for I had, had a couple of glasses of wine and very sensitive. A couple of days later I called there house to speak with her, but got my brother instead. I briefly explained the situation, he said he did not know what was said. I asked to have her to please call me back. This was a four days ago and I have not heard from her. My heart is breaking! Instead of gaining a sister-in-law, I feel that I have lost my brother. I have no idea what to do. I've been told not to call her, leave alone. I'm hoping for some insight.