(((((( Tomi ))))))
I know this is all very sensitive, but isn't that why we're doing this? I don't know for certain, hell, I don't know if I know anything right now, but, I don't think Jill brought this point to the thread directed at you personally. I think she has an inner conflict, that's not resolved, and that is why this thread began. In that respect, it is on topic.
I agree if there are personal problems between the two of you, it should be handled in private. But, if we can remove the personal and deal with the issue, I'd be grateful for Jills participation.
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but rising every time we fall." Confucius