grace,

hi and welcome. first, i would like to say that i'm so sorry about what happened. i'm sorrier for his actions after the fact.

all thru your post, i thought, "wow, what healthy thinking despite her obvious pain!". you have such good clarity on who you are and what you will not accept. what a gift!

i wouldn't communicate with him no more. his statement about knowing you'll get back together...ugh! how disrespecful and conceited. he wants his cake and eat it too. i wouldn't give him the pleasure of hearing my phone ring again. i'd change my number!

again, i'm so sorry for your pain. i think you're doing such a good job at working for healing.

be safe, and i wish you the best.

please keep us posted?

kd